Independence or Marriage These days there is a popular view that for young women, marrying a wealthy husband is better than finding a god job which I can never agree with. In my opinions , it
is self-value ,independence and genuine love that count much more than a wealthy husband. Firstly, wealth does not mean everything and everyone has rights to realize his dreams, so it is with women. If men can pursue success of their careers, why should women live in the shadows of men and accomplish nothing but depend on her wealthy husband? In fact, personal value can only be achieved by hard working rather than just depending on others and finding a good job can provide women a stage to show their abilities and talents, which can not be replaced by wealth from others. Secondly, finance independence is the base of the independence of thoughts and actions. The harmony relationship between a couple should bases on equality .meanwhile, finding a good job can keep women remain independence in finance. Frankly to speak, it is common to find that couples argue over financial matters in real life which consequently leads to a failure in marriage. Therefore, comparing to marrying a wealthy husband. finding a good job can guarantee the stability of marriage in some degree. Thirdly, when looking for a person to marry, the lady should always look for her Mr Right rather than Mr Best. If she has a good job which
can give her a relatively high-quality life, she has to care much about wealth when selecting an ideal spouse which can help her to find genuine love instead of a money pocket to survive. Not one time have we seen the phenomenon that a young lady who tries to get a luxury life marries a wealthy businessman and unfortunately be deserted soon which leaves a lifetime tragedy to her. After all, a woman should marry the one who she appreciates but not wealth. Apparently, finding a good job did has many advantages over marrying a wealthy husband. All in all, finding a good job has an obvious advantage over marrying a wealthy husband for the self value, independence and genuine love it brings to us.Young girls today had better take a second thought on this.
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